04-11-2017, 04:00 PM
(04-09-2017, 04:23 AM)TSOd Wrote:(04-06-2017, 12:27 PM)NancyL Wrote: Per the TSO Facebook page Paul O'Neill has passed away from a chronic illness.
WHY isn't this board FILLED with condolences tributes memories of Paul like the Facebook pages are? One can spend hours reading these and can bring tears as well as smiles. The Facebook pages were and are laughed at for being where the groupies are and for non-intelligent, or stimulating TSO conversation. Well I'll tell you Facebook is where the REAL FANS are now and has this so called intelligent stimulating Board of TSO "fans" lol beat by a long shot. Yes I am a groupie and proud to admit it. Yes I like intelligent stimulating TSO conversation too but I have not found it here up to now and certainly not now. There are people here on this Board who will not have Paul and TSO to kick around anymore.
First of all, you have to understand that not everybody reacts to a loss the same way...and that's okay. Some people may not be ready to talk about it to anybody yet. When they are ready, they may choose to talk about it to friends and family instead of other fans that they, most likely, really don't know. There's no right or wrong way to grieve a loss. Also, to me this is a loss that I must work through but, to some people, it's somebody they were a fan of and they don't feel it as deeply as some of us do. That's okay too. Just because you are taking this in one way doesn't mean that everybody has to follow suit because that just isn't the case. You can respond if you'd like but I've said what I felt needed to be said and won't be responding again.